So fed up!

I am very fed up with the procedure to apply temporary resident permit in Netherlands. I am here for 13 months now and I have yet to receive my resident permit! Can you believe it? More than a year! They keep on saying 2 more weeks, but I had been waiting for a lot of 2 weeks liao... I cannot leave Holland until I get my resident permit, which mean, I also cannot go back to Malaysia this december if my resident permit is not approve yet! Loong is going to Genava next months, I cannot go also... SO sian... very sian!!!!