PPP: Math Tutors
For parents who are facing difficulty and do not know how to start to introduce or teach Mathematics to their children, they should start by searching for a Math Tutors. Let the well trained teacher do their job and let your children know that Mathematics are fun!
SCORE! is a good choice. They helps children ages 4 to 14 make significant academic progress in an innovative tutoring environment.
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PPP: Reading Tutor.
One of my neighbour's children do not like reading at all! The mother told me that her children are having difficulty keeping up with their reading assignments, this can seriously affect they motivation and confidence! I would like to advise the mother to send her children for a Reading Tutors at SCORE! so that the children can pick up the interest of reading as soon as possible.
Score Learning centers helps children ages 4 to 14 make significant academic progress in an innovative tutoring environment. I am sure it's worth to invest some of your money in this.
It's Summer now...
Oh SUN-SHINE!!! This weekend plan to go Children Farm again! I hope we have good weather! :-)
PPP: Online shopping again!!!
Always shop online like me? There is another site which is just right for you. KeepCash.com is a site where you can get thousands of online coupon codes and save your money when shopping online. And guess what? With KeepCash.com weekly newsletter, you can get free online coupons delivered directly to your inbox! You don't even need to visit the website daily to know what's the new coupons to use. KeepCash.com is updated daily with the latest coupons and product deals. The site is user friendly that you can find the lastes bargains on the web easily!
Since I become a mother, I always like to shop for kid's stuffs. At Babies R Us, you can find anything you need from newborns and infants. Their products include cribs and furniture, car seats, strollers, formula, diapers, bedding, clothing for preemies through size 48 months, toys, and plenty of unique gift ideas. For a mother, I am sure you can save alot by using Babies R Us Coupons.
Besides buying things for my girl, I think I also have to treat myself good, right? I am quite surprise to see Avon Coupons here. Avon is the world's leading direct seller of beauty and related products. I believe most Malaysian know this brand. May be I should use some of my hard earn money to buy some Avon product and make myself more attractive.
Found what you like to buy? Found your coupons?
Formula Milk
Anyway, the advertisement is out everywhere but I cannot see any tin in supermarket! Finally we found a tin left in a shop and we fast-fast grab it. Since we know there's another same shop in the next city The Hague, we had purposely took tram to go The Hague and get another 2 tin. We afraid we will have difficulty to get one when the only tin finish. So susah! One tin only 900g and already cost Euro 9.90, so expensive! May be I should consider to let Anne drink fresh milk!
PPP: Ready Made Curtains.
With Terry’s Fabrics you will be able to reinvent any room easily and affordably. The ready made curtains sold here are a fantastic solution for those looking to fit their own curtains. When you purchase with them, theycan also advise you on how to measure and whether you will need to purchase custom length curtains.
Just bought your new house? Why not try Terry’s Fabrics ready made curtains!
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p/s: I did something like let a robot "crawl my site". Correct or not?
PPP: The Survivor!
I always join my girl to watch her Barney show, so my imagination is as good as Barney the purple dinasor! No money is not a main issue. I believe there are a lot of kind people out there. As long as I am willing to work for them, I am sure the boss will give some food or money as exchange. I can work in a restaurant as waitress or cleaner or any work that I can do. With my hands sure I can work to earn my own money! With the money I earn, I can get any resources I need. I might need a longer time but what to rush for? We must enjoy our life to the fullest even when you are in trouble. God will only put you under a situation where you can handle it! That's why I always believe that I can overcome every problem with the wisdom that God had grant me. What about a place to sleep. Not a problem at all! During spring or summer when the weather is good with sun shinny day, I can sleep with nature. Means, in any garden, under a bridge or in between trees. Not everyone have this kind of opportunity to sleep with nature you know? Autumn and winter will be very challenging to me because I am afraid of cold! Then I should find a more proper place to sleep, eg. in a public toilet? Or I think I will look for a stay in job where the boss will provide me a place to sleep. That's better~
How about you? How you will survive when you are in this situation? Will you do what I suggest or you prefer to learn the survivor skill from Michael Weston, a CIA Operative on USA Network's new TV series, Burn Notice? To learn from him, visit here! I must say that he is a professional!
Upset!
I was so happy when Loong told me that one of his friend got an offer to study in IHE. At the same time he is given another choice to go Australia. According to their boss, the courses offered by IHE is better than Australia. That's why I am putting high hope that he will choose to come here. At least I can have another friend here because his wife is coming with him. His wife is same age as me, last time when I was preggy with Anne, we went to Cherating together. But today, he emailed Loong telling that he choose Australia. Main reason is, application for Netherlands Visa is very troublesome and costly too. For Master students, IHE only help their students to apply the Visa, not their family (For Ph.D students IHE will apply for the students and family). So, there is possibility that he need to come here first and his wife later. That's why they choose to go Australia together.
Aiyaaaa.... I am so upset now!
PPP: Lucky SEVEN!!!
I bet, this is a greatest news for all bloggers who had signed-up with PPP. PPP raised another $7 million. $7 million!!! What should they do with the $7 million? I think all the staffs in PPP deserve a raise in their pay. They are working hard to help us to earn our money, right? Next, more opportunities should be giving out to all blogger without segmentation... I need this because my blog do not have a good PR! :-)
I started to enjoy writing paid-post now. I learned about blog ethics thru PPP also. PayPerPost itself has no restrictions on how we can express our genuine thoughts on an advertiser's product or service. But we must bear in mind that, a blogger should be responsible to what he/she had wrote. Dishonest or completely off-topic posts can ultimately hurt your own blog's credibility.
Anyway, I am hoping that PPP will give more surprise to me in future! Well-done to PayPerPost!
Press Release:
The PayPerPost Revolution Accelerates, Sponsored
Blogging Marketplace Secures $7 Million Series B
Draper Fisher Jurvetson leads round and joins Board of Directors
ORLANDO, FL – (June 12, 2007) – PayPerPost, the leading marketplace for advertisers to reach bloggers and other consumer content creators, today announced it has completed a $7 million second round investment led by Draper Fisher Jurvetson, an investor in the company's Series A and one of the world’s leading high-technology venture capital firms. The financing brings the total amount of capital raised by PayPerPost to over $10 million, giving the company considerable resources for further development as the industry’s leading Consumer Generated Advertising marketplace. Additional participants in the round include existing investors Inflexion Partners and Village Ventures as well as new investor DFJ Gotham. With this investment, DFJ Managing Director Josh Stein also joins PayPerPost’s Board of Directors.
“PayPerPost created this exciting new advertising space and has established itself as the industry leader,” said Ted Murphy, chief executive officer of PayPerPost. “Although we’ve only used a portion of our first round capital, this added support from investors unlocks significant growth potential. Our content creator and advertiser ROI metrics clearly demonstrate the upside for PayPerPost’s model. We intend to use this capital to build the infrastructure, visibility and professional expertise necessary to reach and retain a greater network of advertisers and content creators than ever before.”
Since its founding in June of 2006, PayPerPost has signed more than 6,500 advertisers to its groundbreaking service, which has enabled Consumer Content Creators to be compensated for their efforts discussing specific companies, products or services via blogs, videos or other media. The content creators are required to disclose relationships with advertisers on their blog, providing transparency for the end reader. Over 125,000 Internet postings, most in the form of blogs, have already earned money for their creators through PayPerPost’s innovative marketplace. PayPerPost recently released PayPerPost Direct, a disruptive new service that allows advertisers to contract and negotiate directly with individual bloggers they identify through a safe, managed system.
“PayPerPost has laid a strong foundation for the future,” noted Tim Draper, founder and managing director of Draper Fisher Jurvetson. “It continues to attract a critical mass of participants from both the advertising and blogging communities. Analogous to Overture’s sponsored search model, we believe PayPerPost’s business model holds disruptive potential and will enable the company to thrive in the evolving paid-content arena.”
To mark the $7 million dollar funding, PayPerPost has launched a new website detailing the company’s service offering at http://www.payperpost.com. Bloggers and advertisers can easily sign up at the site and begin leveraging the self service marketplace.
My first 100USD
How I want to spent my moeny leh? The first 30 USD was used yesterday to pay my online Montessori Album. Next I think I would like to use the money to buy some potty training related item for Anne! Yes, I want to make good use of the coming Summer to potty train Anne.
Wish me good luck!
PPP: Summer Camps
Research shows that kids lose an average of one month of learning over the summer break. To retain your kids' learning even during the summer break, join Summer Camps at SCORE! They provide so many type of program that I am sure to have one that is suit to your children interest! Visit the website to read more about all the summer program! Have fun!
Change of Blog title...


PPP: Coupon Chief
I started to shop online more often after I came to Netherlands. I am glad that I found Coupon Chief, a site provided thousands of coupons for you to choose from. You can save a lot by using these coupons code. Recently I love to shop at this shop: BabyCenter. Currently they are givng out Free Shipping on orders of $49 or more. You even can get cheaper toys there because they are also having Summer Clearance: Save up to 60% on Outdoor Toys Gear and Swimwear now!
Wanna buy new toys for your kids? This is a great place for you to shop online!
I am tired!
At first I thought after he presented his proposal on monday (11 June), then he can spent more time at home. But no, he prefers to attend most of the Ph.D seminar organised by IHE every day among this week. Then, he joined and plan to join some other technical visits with IEM delegates from Malaysia (currently in Netherland for 1 week). He said, those visits very good woh!
Yesterday night came home nearly 2am, went out "drinking" with his friends lah! Not always got friends coming from Malaysia, right? OK-lor. Then, tonight he is at Amsterdam with his friends again, they have a full day program at Amsterdam tomorrow. He said better go over tonight to stay with them so that tomorrow he no need to wake up so early to take the train to Amsterdam! Apa saja lah!! Go lah!! Yes, I am a little bit "beh song"!! Day time already always not at home, now enven night time also not at home! Sienzzz!
I think he is thinking to join the dinner host by one of our Minister from Malaysia who happen to attend a meeting in Netherlands this week. Why so many program happen this week one!!!??!?!?! I NEED A BREAK NOW!!!! NOW!!!!
PPP: I joined PayPerPost
After seeing many blogger earning money easily by writing paid-post, finally I signed up for PPP and start advertise on blogs. I cannnot remember the actual date I joined PPP, but I remember that my blog was approved by PPP on 17 April 2007.
I took my first oppurtunity to write about Drug-Rehab. This is my first approved paid-post and I earned my first $12 online. Although my blog do not have a good PR, but still I have some oppurtunities to write. I had wrote 10 paid-post in a month, and guess what? My earning is reaching USD 100 now! I believe I can earn my first USD 100 soon!
Why I joined PayPerPost? Of course due to the reason that I would like to earn money lah! You see, I used to be a career women before I followed my husband here in The Netherlands. I used to have income. Since I came here, I fully depended to my husband if I need to buy something. I was so happy to find out about PayPerPost which I am able to earn money again although I am a full-time-housewife now!!
I learned a lot after joining PayPerPost. For example, before I started to write any post, I have to do some reading first! This improve my knowledge in certain issue. My english also improved a little bit because PayPerPost requested us to write in english ONLY!
Are you a member of PayPerPost? If not, join us to earn some pocket money easily and of course, at the same time: Learn New Things!
I love PayPerPost!
Time to go home!
Loong had bought tickets for Anne and I. Why his ticket no need to buy? Because his ticket is sponsored by his scholarship sponsor. He need to go back for data collection for approximately 3 months. His supervisor and promoter will visit Malaysia early next year as well, to see the condition in Malaysia. Since Loong is going back, of course I want to follow also lah! What am I going to do here if I stay back at Netherlands alone with Anne, right? 3 months!!! I don't want!
Anyway, we spent Euro1550+ for tickets for 2 of us! Aiyaaaa... Need to ikat perut for the rest of the months liaooooo... Anne's ticket already cost us Euro 688+. We should go back before Anne turns 2 hor, save a lot! But cannot lah, Loong have to do something here also...
I miss Malaysia's hawker food now!!! *drooling badly*
PPP: Astronomy Gadget
Do you like Astronomy? Do you love to see stars? I used to go out to my house's balcony to see star in the night sky when I was a teenager. And guess what? Anne's first word was STAR!
Many people would think that Astronomy gadget must be very expensive and never think that we can afford one. OpticsPlanet.com is a site where you can find all kind of astronomy gadget at lowest price. Together with Meade, OpticsPlanet.com proudly present the newest and coolest astronomy gadget named Meade MySky. Meade MySKY is a fun, interactive, hand-held, point-shoot-and-identify multimedia guide to our universe that will guide you through the night sky. Even better than a private astronomer standing next to you!! You must be thinking that it must be very difficult and complicated to use one. No worry, Meade MySky is simple to operate with easy to follow video menu. You can check out more telescopes offer here also!
To learn more about astronomy, you can visit GearGalaxy.com which is sponsored in part by OpticsPlanet.com.
Thunder storm...
PPP: CRM Software
As a good leader in a company you should manage your customer information wisely. Customer only will trust you when you show how good you know them! What should you do to keep track of all you customer's information? Now is IT world, you do not need to keep all your customer information in files anymore. What you need is a CRM software only!
You might worry that CRM software is typically confusing and overly complex, but with AIMpromote you can get rid of all the confusion because they provide a solution that can be implement with quickness and ease. They allow team leaders to make only those features that are needed available to the sales team, leaving them with less to learn.
Why not sign up for a free trial now and see how AIMpromote can be your best helper in managing your custormer information.
Girl is still a girl!
I like to let her wear skirt, but the weather here just not allow me to do so. You see, will you let your girl wear skirt when the temperature is always below 15'C? I prefer to let her wear jeans! Today, when she was watching 四千金's MTV, she saw them wear skirt. Then she said:"Skirt, 美美". Hahaha... After bath, I decided to let her wear her skirt, in the house (today is a rainy day, cannot go out with skirt lah!). She is very happy now, always say:"美美"! Girl is still a girl, right?
PPP: PPP Direct Launches
Besides that, PayPerPost Direct cuts out the massive overhead. Other competitors like ReviewMe charge 50-100% mark up on the post we write and keep up to half of our money while PayPerPost Direct only charges a 10% fee, 5% of which goes to transaction fees for PayPal and credit card processing. You see, you can earn more with PayPerPost Direct and it's so much easier. You do not need to go to PayPerPost website to grab the offer with others, what you need to do is to install the badge and wait for the oppurtunity! Easy, right? Why not join PayPerPost Direct now?
Yeah~~~
Anyway I am glad that it's going to over sooooooon. Next, I want to reduce her time of watching TV, hope that she is not that addicted to TV yet!
PPP: Credit Card
I do have a credit card and I seldom use it. I prefer to use my husband's card so that we can focus our poits collection and can get our rebate gift faster. After I read this article: Do you have a credit card you don't use?, I feel that the writer is like talking to me. He got the point! Now, I have to think whether I should keep my card or not!
As you know I shop online quite often now. I have to persuade my husband to lend me his credit card to buy things online. Before he lent me his card, he always will ask me which site I bought the thing and the site can be trusted or not. You should know why he asked these question. Yes, he worried about fraud! After reading about How can you keep yourself safe from credit card fraud?, I know what should I do to protect our information.
You can read more useful articles regarding credit cards here!
Tag: 10 About Hubby That I Dislike
I wish Loong will not read this... But, let him know also OK what??!?!
- He likes to do things in a "super fast" mode. Every task he prefer to finish it before the dead-line. The earlier, the better. That's why he has high-blood-pressure at such a young age.
- He always wanted me to do something according to his way of doing thing. For example, work as fast as he did. Weay... I prefer to do it slowly, but for sure I am confident that I can finish it before the dead-line!
- He is more hygenic than me. He cannot stand dirt. After I cooked, must mod the floor. But if I do not want to mod the floor, he will do it. :-P He is too hygenic until he always prohibited Anne to play 'wildly' at church or when we were outside. I would let Anne crawl and roll and touch anything that I consider OK (to him most of it is not OK).
- He will keep quiet when I am complaining abiut him. Hey, give some response lah!!! I am like talking to air you know?
- He likes to talk to me when I am in the kitchen (either cooking or washing dishes), and expected that I can listen to him clearly. After that he will complain that I am not listening to him, or my ears not function well.
- Everyday must read newspaper. Reading newspaper is more important than playing with Anne! Only will stop when I asked him to STOP!
- Too concentrate when doing his work. Everything happen beside him, he cannot see or hear oneeee...
- Force me to eat orange. I don't like orange!
- Expected me to have a super-good-memory like a computer which can remember where we keep every object that he is looking for. Anything went missing, is my fault! Duh~~
- This is the recent dislike: Always want me to cook supper for him! Supper NOT good! (*and I am lazy to cook for him ler!*)
Oh, I can finish this tag pretty fast mah... Not going to tag anyone!!!
PPP: Pingo.com
Since I came over to Netherlands, I always remind myself to call back home at least once a week, that's why I spent a lot of money on phone calls! I am glad that I found Pingo.com at last. Pingo.com is a prepaid calling card provider that has NO hidden fee's, NO surprises with the best competitive rates worldwide. To check on the rate for your country, please click here: calling card rates.
If you signing up with Pingo.com now, you can receive up to 4 hours of international calls for FREE! They also giving up special promotion on special occasion. For example: Father's Day special discount where you can get $10 in Free Father's Day Calls. You even can get $15 for each new customer you refer under Pingo’s affiliate program. Besides that, Pingo also provide a virtual International rechargeable phone calling card service.
I want to join now, so that I can get the Father's Day special discount! So, what are you waiting for?
Tag: 我宝贝女儿名字的意义
我女儿与Irene的静静一样是鸡年生的,名字也有个“静”字。我不是因为Irene想的那样“因为鸡年出生的小孩,通常会比较叽喳也比较顽皮”而取了一个“静”字。纯粹因为我喜欢“静”这个字。唉,我想有‘静’这个字的孩子都不静吧!静恩也不是一位安静的女孩,声量还超大声的叻!
可能很多人还不知道我女儿的中文名是:静恩。我们是基督徒,取名没算生辰八字。公家也没有什么特别要求,一切由我俩决定。‘静’和‘恩’是两个很普通的字,多数的人都会念。我不想取个很多人都不会念的字,就像我的名字酱,很难记。但这两个字也是很有意思的两个字。好了,为什么叫静恩?静是安静的意思。恩是恩典的意思。我们希望我们的女儿会时时刻刻‘静静’细数,领受及等候主的‘恩典’。就这样简单!
好啦,到点兵兵的时候啦!我点一个就好:
PPP: Online Coupons
I started to buy things online after I came over to Netherlands. I need to buy my girl's books and toys online because it's very difficult to find english or mandarin book and toys here, in The Netherlands. I should know about Coupon Chief earlier so that I can save some money!
So far I love to shop at: Discovery Channel Shop coupon codes. I can find a lot of documentary DVDs here. Loong loves to watch documentary series. He said it's good to improve our knowledge by watching these series. I even can find very educational toys which is suitable for Anne. Besides documentary DVDs and toys, you also can find good books, electronic gadgets, discovery high tech gadgets, health and fitness products, telescopes and lots more there!
Do you love to watch Discovery channel like my husband? Then, Discovery Channel Shop is just right for you! Enjoy you e-shopping there!
My hubby will be away for one whole week! Help!!!
I hate it when he told me that he cannot avoid to go. Weay... One week leh! 7 days! How am I going to handle one running + naughty + high demand toddler alone for one week? 7*24 hours!!! Ahhh... I started to imagine what will happen now. If we are in Malaysia, I think it's shouldn't be a problem for me... But... Here, alone? I cannot trust myself lah! Loong keep on reminding me to keep the keys properly la and do not forget to bring the keys out!! He even want to train me to eat faster! Duh!!
Pray for me, OK?
PPP: Free Ecards & Printables @ American Greetings
It's IT world now. Everything can be done thru a computer. Ecards are a popular way to greet your family members and friends who are staying far away from you.
AmericanGreetings.com is a site that provide thousands of ecards and printable greeting cards including a wide range of birthday cards, romantic cards, and cards that can be sent "just because" to say hi. Most importantly they are celebrating the site redesign of AmericanGreetings.com now by giving out free ecards and printable greeting cards for 3 days! You even can get features greetings for licensed characters and properties such as Elvis, Looney Tunes, Disney, Nickelodeon (SpongeBob SquarePants, Jimmy Neutron), The Muppets, Harley Davidson, Strawberry Shortcake, Holly Hobbie, Care Bears, Twisted Whiskers, Chicken Soup for the Soul and lots more. Nice, right?
The new site of AmericanGreetings.com is very user-friendly. Use the "find it quick" function at your top left hand screen for picking specific types of eCards easily. Besides that, you can leave your comment on an individual cards using the ratings system created speacially for this. They also provide a better customization tools on eCards and the eCards are printables. Yes, you can print your eCards easily!
So, what are you waiting for? To get started, just click on: AmericanGreetings.com. The promotion only last for 3 days (until 17 May 2007). Be FAST!
炒芹菜
- 芹菜一颗
- 鸡腿肉切块
- 冬菇浸软切片
- 蒜米少许
鸡腿肉腌料:
- 少许酱青
- 少许盐
- 少许绍兴酒
步骤:
- 热锅,加少许橄榔油。
- 爆香蒜米,加入腌好的鸡腿肉翻炒。
- 等鸡腿肉5分熟时加入冬菇继续翻炒。
- 最后加入主角芹菜继续翻炒直所有材料熟透。
- 盛谍,准备享用。
PPP: 1800nodrugs.com
www.1800nodrugs.com is a treatment referral service that ready to help you to find a suitable and reliable rehabilitation center for you or your loved one. Most importantly, it's a free service. Although they are giving out free services, it doesn't mean that the services they are giving is not up to standard. They have the most experienced drug rehab counselors that are ready to help you and guide you thru out the process. By listening to the expert's opinion, it's no more a dauting task to search for a suitable rehab center.
Are you still looking for a suitable rehab center? Why not try www.1800nodrugs.com? I believe they know what is the best for you and your loved one.
Marmite Chicken.
- Chicken wings
- 2 pips garlic, chopped
- Egg (beated)
- white pepper
Marmite Sauce:
- 2 tblsps Marmite
- 4 tblsps hot water
- 1 tblps sugar
- Black pepper
Steps:
- Coat chicken wings with some white pepper and egg. Deep fry, take and out.
- Dissolve marmite and sugar in hot water.
- Heat oil in small pan, saute garlic, add black pepper, pour in the Marmite mixture.
- Once the sauce started to boil, add in the chicken wings.
- Stir...
- Take out and ready to serve
Pretty easy eh!
PPP: Lowest Unique Bid WINS!
You have a change to win many kind of product at Lowest Bid. By clicking on bid4prizes.com.
I am a full-time-housewife now. I spent most of my time at home. Since we started working, we never bought any TV which is more that 14". You see it right, we only own a 14" TV. Why we avoid to buy a BIG TV is because we are not sattling down yet. It will be very troublesome to move a BIG TV when we need to move to a new house. I wish I can win this set of home theather system so that I can enjoy the luxury of watching movies at home but with BIG screen (no more 14"), good sound effect, just like watching a movie in a cinema. How nice!
What you would like to win?
Happy Mother's Day 2007
I received one carnation today. Not from my girl's Daddy, OK? It's from our church's Sunday School students. Nice or not?
When we came back from Church, it was almost 1p.m. I had to rush to fed Anne her lunch, bath her and put her to sleep. So, Loong cooked lunch for me. Hehehe.... He cooked curry mee... I must say it was yummy, OK? Else he would refused to cook again next time!

This is what I cooked for dinner. Just a simple meal. Loong doesn't like western food and we prefer to eat at home! It will be a nightmare to bring Anne out for dinner. OK, I admit also: we are poor family survive on scholarship, cannot afford outside food lah!!! :-P After dinner, Loong washed all the dishes while I played with Anne....
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY to all of you~~~
12 招教養出快樂小孩
研究發現,快樂的孩子擁有一些共同的特質,包括:較有自信、樂觀、有自制力。我們整合專家意見,提供12個訣竅,讓你養育出一個快樂的孩子。
1. 給孩子隨性玩耍的時間,不要把生活安排得太有規則
美國兒童教育學者湯姆斯.阿姆斯壯指出,自由玩耍比有計劃性的活動,對學齡前的孩子來說更為健康有益。父母要避免將孩子的時間塞滿各種活動、課程。所有的孩子都需要有一些無所事事,隨性玩耍的時間。唯有這樣才能讓他們的想像力無拘無束的發揮,讓他們可以悠閒的看蜘蛛織網、研究螢火蟲如何發光;以他們自然的速度去探索他們所好奇的世界。也許,有時你也該放慢你的腳步,拋開你的行程表,跟著孩子的節奏享受生活。
2. 教導他關懷別人
快樂的孩子需要能感受到自己與別人有某些有意義的連結,了解到他對別人的意義,要發展這種感覺,可以幫助孩子多與他人接觸。你可以和孩子一起整理一些舊玩具,和他一起捐給慈善團體,幫助無家可歸的孩子,也可以鼓勵孩子在學校參與一些義工活動。專家指出,即使在很小的年齡,都能從幫助他人的過程中,獲得快樂。並養成喜歡助人的習慣。
3. 鼓勵他多運動
陪你的孩子玩球、騎腳踏車、游泳;運動不但可以鍛鍊孩子的體能,也會讓他變得更開朗。 保持動態生活可以適度紓解孩子的壓力與情緒,並且讓孩子喜歡自己,擁有較正面的身體形象,並從運動中發現樂趣與成就感。
4. 笑口常開常
和孩子說說笑話、一起編些好笑的歌,和你的孩子一起開懷大笑,對你和孩子都有益處。光是大笑,就是很好的運動。
5. 有創意的讚美
當孩子表現很好時,不要只是說:「很好。」讚美要具體一些,說出細節,指出有哪些地方讓人印象深刻,或是比上次表現更好,例如,「你今天有主動跟警衛伯伯說早安,真的很有禮貌。」不過,讚美時也要注意,不要養成孩子錯誤的期待。有些父母會用禮物或金錢獎賞孩子,讓孩子把重點都放在可以獲得哪些報酬上,而不是良好的品格和行為上。父母應該讓孩子自己發現,完成一件事情所帶來的滿足與成就感,而不是用物質報酬來獎賞他。
6. 確保孩子吃得健康
健康的飲食,不僅讓孩子身體健康,也能讓孩子的情緒較穩定。不論是正餐或點心,儘量遵循健康原則,例如:低脂、低糖、新鮮、均衡的飲食。
7. 激發他內在的藝術天份
雖然科學家已證實沒有所謂的「莫札特效應」,但是多讓孩子接觸音樂、美術、舞蹈等活動,依然可以豐富孩子的內心世界。專家發現,當孩子隨音樂舞動、或是拿著畫筆塗鴉,其實都是孩子在抒發他內在世界、表達情感的方法。孩子喜歡畫畫、跳舞或彈奏音樂,也會對自己感到比較滿意。
8. 常常擁抱
輕輕一個擁抱,傳達的是無限的關懷,是無聲的「我愛你」。研究發現溫柔的撫觸擁抱,可以讓早產兒變得較健康、較活潑,情緒也較穩定。對於大人而言,擁抱也能讓人減輕壓力,撫平不安的情緒。
9. 用心聆聽
沒有什麼比用心聆聽更能讓孩子感受到被關心。想要當個更好的傾聽者嗎?不要只用一隻耳朵聽,當孩子對你說話時,儘量停下你手邊正在做的事情,專心聽他講話。要耐心聽孩子說完話,不要中途打斷、急著幫他表達或是要他快快把話說完,即使他所說的內容你已經聽過許多遍了。陪孩子去上學途中或哄孩子上床睡覺時,是最佳的傾聽時刻。
10. 放棄完美主義
我們都期望孩子展現出他最好的一面,可是有時候太過急切糾正或改善他們的表現,例如,嫌棄他們沒把桌子擦乾淨,乾脆自己再擦一遍;或是糾正他們一定要把東西擺到一定位置。事事要求完美,會減弱孩子的自信心與不怕犯錯的勇氣。
下次當你忍不住想要參一腳,急著幫孩子把事情做的更好時,不妨先想想看:
「這件事跟健康或安全有關嗎?」
「這件事10年之後還有這麼嚴重嗎?」
如果答案是No,那麼就放手讓孩子去做吧。
11. 教導他解決問題
從學會繫鞋帶到自己過馬路,每一步都是孩子邁向更獨立的里程碑。當孩子發現他有能力解決面對的問題,就能帶給他們快樂與成就感。當他遇到阻礙時,例如被玩伴嘲笑或是無法拼好一塊拼圖時,你可有幾個步驟來幫助他:
1. 確認他的問題。
2. 讓他描述他想到的解決方式。
3. 找出解決問題的步驟。
4. 決定讓他自己解決這個問題或提供一些幫助。
5. 確定他能獲得需要的協助。
12. 給他表演的舞台
每個孩子都有獨特的天賦,何不給他們機會表現一下?如果他們喜歡說故事,鼓勵他多說故事給你聽。如果他對數字很擅長,帶著他去逛街,讓他幫你挑選價格便宜的東西。當你能欣賞孩子的才能,並表現出你的熱情時,孩子自然會更有自信心。
最後,不論你認不認同以上的原則或策略,也不論你是學校教育或在家教育,即或你還有另外12招更好的方法,你都應該以親子關係為優先。因為在健康優質的關係裡,甚至可以解決能力做不到的問題,並且上帝將孩子賜給你的心意是,讓你享受這一份生命連結的關係,而不是去忍受因外界眾多紛擾而產生的衝突。
不論生活光景如何,大膽的去享受夫妻關係和親子關係是無罪的,反而是在恩典中卻因為功課而帶來不和諧,是上帝所不喜悅的。
PPP: Drug Rehab
It's a pain in heart to see loved ones suffer from a drug or alcohol problem. If I see one of them, I always wish that I can help them personally but I know I can't. Now, there's a way for you to help them to get back to a normal life again.
Stone Hawk drug rehabilitation center is one of the most successful inpatient drug rehab, offering a 76%+ success rate. To find out more, please visit this site: drug rehab.
They have their special way of treatment. What they do is to direct the person that come into their drug rehab program to discover that they can develop a lifestyle that fits their needs and wants without drug addiction or alcoholism. They also believed that saunas help to heal the body and the benefits of holistic medicine - nutrition was a priority in keeping the body healthy.
I am sure this is a very healthy way to wean drug and alcohol addiction!!
Laziness...
Anyway, I moved in to a new student hostel yesterday. We have 2 PC with 100Mbps internet connection! Very good indeed! I think I will try to blog more once I finish unpack and tidy up my new place! If you miss me, please visit my other blog: Love.Joy.Life.
Strange weather.
Today, the temperature drop to 14-15'C during day time and 5'C at night. Temperature expected to drop to 8'C during day time on Friday!! 8'C again??!??!? Arrgghhhh.... suddently so hot, suddently so cold!!!!!! What happen to our earth!!!!!
We will visit Keukenhof on 21st April (Saturday), I just hope that we will have a warmer weather. But, people said it will be a cold day as well! Sianzzzz...
Tag: Sweet 18!
Go to PopCulture site. Pick the year you turn 18 years old. Get yourself nostalgic over the songs that year.Write something about how those songs afffected you. Pass it on to five more friends.
Because You Loved Me - Celine Dion
I Believe I Can Fly - R. Kelly
Don't Speak - No Doubt
I seldom listen to english hits song. These are the songs that I always can watch/listen when I pressed my remote to MTV channel (that time no Astro yet, we watched Brunei's satelite show). Anyway Celine Dion is one of my favourite singer. Her voice is special and loud! And I salute her efford to get pregnant for her ill husband. Nothing much to say... :-P Not sweet also.
Don't want to tag anyone lahhhh....
p/s: Vivianz, we are same year ke???
April~~ Spring~~
April is a month of flowers in Holland. We celebrate the end of winter - goodbye to the short days and long nights, and welcome to Spring with its promise of sunshine and showers. Now we are expected to see flowers everywhere in Delft - parks, gardens, and even between the tramlines! No wonder Holland is famous for it’s flowers.
See, the trees are full with flowers!! So pretty!!
I love spring!!! I love flowersssss...
Tag, tag, tag...
Annie Q and VivianZ tagged me on this meme. But I am too busy with other "entertainment" so a bit late in doing this tag (I admit, a bit lazy also :-P).
Eh, I am from Sarawak and Sarawak located in Borneo Island leh. So, I used to be in an island liao! What to write then? Aiyo, I should kena this tag earlier. Now seems like everybody already in the island liao... I think I just need to bring myself there, right? No need to bring anyone lah~
Haha... Annie Q & VivienZ like this pass ka???
Tag #2: Why I married my husband
Tagged by wokking mum. I had done the same tag in my other blog! Please read here! :-D
Yeahh~~~~ done!
Joke again!
UK Immigration Officer: Purpose of visit?
Visitor: I'm here to study law, sir.
Officer: You know, you must have a lot of lawyers in Malaysia .
Visitor: Why do you say that?
Officer: Well, I've been here for a good twenty years, and I'd say 80% of Malaysians I see here say they're here to read law.
Visitor: Oh, really? That's really something I never knew. Hard tobelieve in fact.
Officer: Just you watch, then. You just stand here until the nextMalaysian comes along, and I'll bet he's here to read law.
*Visitor waits for 5 mins, Ah Chong from Malaysia comes to immigration counter*
Officer: Mr. Ah Chong, purpose of visit?
Ah Chong: Study lorr...
注:我是其中一个这样讲话的人!哈哈哈!
Maternity Leaves..
In Netherlands, mothers are qualified for 4 months of maternity leaves (full pay!). Plus, you are allowed to apply for another 12 weeks of unpaid leaves. In China, mothers are given 6 months of maternity leaves (ehh.. but they only allow one birth only lah!). I even heard that Germany just reviewed their maternity leave policy this year, guess how long they give? I tell you, you wouldn't believe me! ONE YEAR! SATU TAHUN!!!! Soooooooo GOOOD~~~ I want to go Germany and find a job there and get pregnant and give birth and enjoy my 1 year maternity leavessssss with full pay!!!!!! ~~Joking only lah...
"一些國家的僱主甚至給喂孩子母乳的產婦另外的有薪假期." --> I hope our government will implement this also... Longer maternity leaves for breastfeeding mother!
My Chicken Burger~~

I ate one during breakfast, another 1 and a half during lunch!!! Yummmmy! It's so difficult to find the packed in pieces' cheddar cheese you know? Most of the cheese here sold in one big piece like this: 
I don't know how to buy and which to buy also. You know how? Can teach me or not?
What’s in my bag?
Anyway, if I go out with that bag, this is what I will put in my BIG bag:
- Umbrella. Weather here is unpredictable. Rain will fall anytime!
- My handphone - Only one person will call me nia, that is Loong!
- Anne's water bottle.
- Anne's winter glove - just in case her hand become very cold!
Not going to tag anyone~ Nyiek!
Freaking Weather!
The snow turned into rain once it touched the floor (so no snow to play with), it caused the weather became so cold! Cannot go gai-gai... Then, we had ice pellets in the evening!!! BIG one! Sure hurt if hit on you.
When will spring come???!?!
Feeling good.
Internet is so important to us now, why?
- We use skype or yahoo messager to call back home. Can see face to face some more.
- We read online Malaysia paper: Sin-Chew-Daily and The-Star.
- We read online Malaysia Magazines, lot of choises at eMAG.
- We listen to Malaysia radio station, my favourite is Ai-FM.
- Search for new recipesssssss!!!!
- To buy Anne's toys and books online.
- To Read blog (me only).
- To update blog (also me only)
Not to mention Loong need it for his Ph.D research purpose. See, if no internet in our hostel we were like dunno-what-to-do-at-home! :-D I mean when Anne is sleeping, OK? When she is awake how can I online, it's A-Mission-Impossible!!!
I am feeling GOOD now. Anne is sleeping, I am listening to Ai-FM, writing this post and at the same time reading Feminine (风采) February issue... Life is so GOOD, thank GOD!
麦片虾
步骤:
- 虾加入酱青以及粟粉腌半小时。
- 热油,将腌好的虾炸至金黄,拿起待用。
- 用少许油爆香蒜茸,小辣椒及咖哩叶。
- 加入糖翻炒直糖溶化。
- 加入麦片翻炒直出香味。
- 最后加入虾翻炒几下,即大功告成。
如果不要吃虾,也可用鸡!
MMB’s 2007 Mother’s Day Plan.

This year, rosfmuhammad from MMB proposed to have another round of presents giving during Mother’s Day to mother who are taking care of their sick children in hospital. Like what they did in year 2005 and 2004.
Year 2004, I didn’t know MMB yet. Year 2005, I think I learn about MMB from a local magazine but not a frequest visitor yet. I missed these 2 years’ Mother’s Day project. This year I am going to miss it again because I am not in Malaysia. DUH~Anyway, I still hope that I can help a bit by promote this wonderful plan to all of you. Please read the detail and progress here.
Montessori Online Course
Anyway, I hope I can decipline myself to read the material according to the timeline from today onward!! If not, how am I going to get back to my work place after 2.5 years? Lazy edi!!! Yes, so fast I already spent 1/6 of my 3 years unpaid-leaves. Decipline!! Decipline!!!! Let my brain work more!!! I must make myself think more, read more and work more (besides taking care of Anne). Ahhh...
BTW, today we we have sun-shiny day again! :-)
酒香鸡
Winter is ending!!!!
那里有这样的老公?
我已经好长日子没运动更甭说骑脚车,当然骑的慢一些。没气啦!新脚车又第一次骑,想怎样?别要求高高。
你知道我老公怎样对我吗?他载恩恩骑的飞快,不但不等我,还一直招手要我快一些。要命!我已经尽量了!更气的是,等他停在一旁还以为他良心发现在等我,那里知道等我好不容易骑到了他竟然骂我干嘛骑那么慢?当时好想骂他粗口!
你说,那里有人这样对老婆的?我发现我的地位越来越不如恩恩了!惨呀!
Jokes
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girl: Will you love me after marriage also?
boy: This depends on your husband, if he allows me.
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Doctor: your husband needs rest and peace. Here are some sleeping pills.
Wife: When must I give them to him?
Doctor: They are for you.
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God saw me hungry, he created pizza .
He saw me thirsty, he created pepsi .
He saw me in dark, he created light .
He saw me without problems, he created YOU.
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The children were lined up in the cafeteria of a Catholic elementary school for lunch. At the head of the table was a large pile of apples. The nun made a note, and posted on the apple tray "Take only one. God is watching."
Moving further along the lunch line, at the other end of the table was a large pile of chocolate chip cookies. A child had written a note, "Take all you want. God is watching the apples."
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One Early morning a mother went to her sleeping son and woke him up.
MOM : "Wake up, son. It's time to go to school."
SON : "But why, Mama? I don't want to go to school."
MOM : "Give me two reasons why you don't want to go to school."
SON : "One, all the chilldren hate me. Two, all the teachers hate me."
MOM : "Oh! that's not a reason. Come on, you have to go to school."
SON : "Give me two good reasons WHY I *should* go to school?"
MOM : "One, you are FIFTY-TWO years old and should understand your responsibilities. Two, you are the PRINCIPAL of the school."
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What are the three fastest ways of communication?
Three fastest means of communication in the world:
Tele-phone
Tele-vision
Tell-a-woman.
You still want faster?
Tell her not to tell anyone :-)
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A man is dying of Cancer.
His son asked him, "Dad, why do u keep telling people u're dying of AIDS?"
Answer:"So when I'm dead no one will dare touch ur mom!"
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Nyiek.. nyiek... nyiek...
Walt Disney's Fantasia 2000

Have you watch this DVD before? I just got my copy. Gave by my China friend. She downloaded from a site (7.57G also can download, geng eh!). It's a very nice and good for children also. I think adult (me included) will love it too. Some introduction about this DVD:
"... this special 60th anniversary DVD truly captures Walt Disney's unique inspiration -- complete with the intermission and narration -- which have not been included in the film since its original theatrical release! FANSTASIA created the mold for blending music and movie magic into an exhilarating moviegoing experience. Unforgettable images are brought to life by some of the world's best music -- the comedy of Mickey Mouse as a troublemaking sorcerer's apprentice, the beauty of winged fairies and cascading snowflakes, even plump hippos performing ballet in tutus! With this special edition DVD, you are invited on a behind-the-scenes look at FANTASIA. Included are audio interviews with Walt Disney spanning three decades, most of which have never been heard, as well as insightful commentaries by Roy E. Disney and others whose talents have contributed to the FANTASIA legacy. Never before has this masterpiece looked and sounded better than in this 60th Anniversary Edition DVD. Enjoy the history, the sounds, and sheer excitement that is FANTASIA!"
It's graphics and sound effects are really nice. I fall in love at first sight! Really, I don't lie one! Trust me, I am not a liar!!!!!!!! :-D
Stupid fella!
Calm down... No need to get angry just because of this 冬菇, right? He only wants to show to the whole world that he is very 冬菇. Let him, let him!!! Muaaahahaahahaha...
Tag: Protect our children on the internet
The project Blogger Power is a campaign to safegard the internet for children against pornography.
A Request To All Webmasters Of Adult Sites:
“Please require a password-protected login before allowing even free access to explicit adult content. We understand that selling porn is your business and we respect your right to make a legal living. But understand our legitimate concerns and work with us. You already have the “warning adult content” on your websites. Yet kids, who are not legal customers of your product, ignore the warning. So to prevent them from having direct access to explicit images, texts and sounds, the simplest way is to have a password-protected login. No more “free tours” before a visitor supplies basic information.”
As usual, not going to tag anyone. I think everyone in my blogroll already tagged by someone liao...
Tag: 5 things you do not know about me.
What 5 things you do not know about me??
- I am allergy to alcohol. My whole body itchy due to the "wine chicken" I ate during confinement! All my confinement food that consist alcohol needed to cook for a long time to boil-out the alcohol! Cannot drink beer also! :-)
- I am under weight! I am 168cm height with 43kgs only. A skinny person.
- I gained 20kgs during my preggie with Anne. Horrible hor... I thought I can maintain some fat after pregnancy, but NO! I am back to my pre-pregnancy weight now.
- I eat a lot and poo a lot too. Hahaha... That's why I cannot gain weight one! Super active digestion system.
- What else you want to know? Tell me, and I let you know! Cannot think any liao...
Let's end this tag here. Not going to tag anyone!
Grrrrrr...
Plan to go to zoo this morning, but it started to rain early in the morning until the time we suppose to leave the house. So, trip was cancelled! We went shopping to buy my facial cream and a birthday present for Salbiah's birthday party later in the afternoon. I just cannot understand one thing! US - Netherlands and Malaysia - Netherlands, which is nearer? Definately the first one right? Then why Dermalogical (US product) is much more expensive here? It cost me Euro 138 for 3 things which in Malaysia I can get it at RM400 nia...
Long life noodle
- 2 drumsticks
- 5 dried mushroom, soak in water and cut into pieces
- Ginger
- salt
- Long life noodle
To cook the chicken soup, put ingredients 1 - 4 into a pot filled with hot boiling water. Let it boil for 1 or 2 hour. Boil another pot of water to cook the noodle for 5 minutes, take it out and put in a bowl. Pour the chicken soup into the bowl when you are ready to eat! One bowl for Loong and one for myself!

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Becareful when your house have a toddler!
SIL#3 left his son to her FIL, this FIL was handling some poison (to kill mouse). The phone rang, and guess what? He left the toddler with the poison!!!! You can guess what happen next, right? Yes, the boy took the poison and eat!!!
Luckily the found out that he is chewing those poison and rush him to hospital to "wash" his stomach! So pity, has to go through all the painful procedure to clean his stomach. Till now, he is still not allowed to eat and drink. Not sure they manage to go back to Bentong tomorrow or not.
Lesson of the day: Never ever left your kids to someone who you think they are not alert enough to take care of kids. Someone can just be to careless. I hope I can remember this inciddent and be more careful when taking care of Anne! I really felt sorry and pity for that little boy!
Fried meat ball (炸肉丸)
Ingredients:- 50% pork + 50%beef (minced and mixed 和在一起剁碎),
- 1/2 pc tau fu (水豆腐),
- 1 egg, flour (一点面粉),
- corn flour (一点薯粉),
- 2 pcs red onion (chopped红葱头切成碎),
- 2 pcs garlics (chopped蒜米切成碎),
- salt (盐).
Steps:
- Mix all ingredients in a big bowl. If the mixture is too soft, add more flour. Use a spoon to scop and put in hot oil for deep fried.
- That’s it, easy to prepare~ Eat with sweet chili sauce, it’s yummy!!
Braised Chicken Wings and Eggs
First, I would like to share my cooking of braised chicken wings and eggs (卤鸡翅膀与鸡蛋).Ingredients:
- Chicken wings and water-boil-eggs.
- 500ml water,
- 3 tbsp of soy-sauce (生抽/酱青),
- 3 tbsp of dark-soy-sauce (老抽/黑酱油),
- 4-5 pcs of cane sugar (冰糖),
- 4-5 pcs of garlic (蒜头, 拍扁),
- 1 pcs of bat-kok (八角).
My review: a little bit too salty, next time I will reduce the amount of soy sauce and dark-soy-sauce.
Alive!!
Enjoy reading!!
Moved~~
But, dunno why, today suddently can access... dunno can last for how long...
Anyway, see you at : New LOVE.JOY.LIFE!!!
I am back...
After spending one week of sweet time with daddy and mummy, Anne is so "glue" to me now. Every morning, once i pass her to my babysitter, she will start crying pityfully... her face looks so pity and her tears come out so fast... make my "heart broken" to leave her in this situation.. Aiii, what to do? Mummy have to work ma... Sorry Anne...
Mummy miss you so muchhhhyyyy la......
p/s: will blog about our life in Miri in my next post... chiao first!!
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OK, may be today i am not in good mood... Didn't get enuff sleep, i think. Anne wake up at 4:00am and don't want to sleep after i breastfed her. Normally she will doze off after around 30 mins i breastfed her, but not today.... so, my "condition" NOT good now... i am like a zombie now!!! Errrkkk....
一篇文章与你共勉之。。。
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媳妇说:"煮淡一点你就嫌没有味道,现在煮咸一点你却说咽不下。你究竟怎想怎么样?"
母亲一见儿子回来,二话不说便把饭菜往嘴里送。 她怒瞪他一眼。
他试了一口,马上吐出来, 儿子说:"我不是说过了吗,妈有病不能吃太咸!"
"那好!妈是你的,以后由你来煮!"媳妇怒气冲冲地回房。
儿子无奈地轻叹一声,然后对母亲说:"妈,别吃了,我去煮个面给您?"
"仔,你是不是有话想跟妈说,是就说好了,别憋在心里!"
"妈,公司下个月升我职,我会很忙,至于老婆,她说很想出来工作,所以......"
母亲马上意识到儿子的意思:"仔,不要送妈去老人院。"声音似乎在哀求。
儿子沉默片刻,他是在寻找更好的理由。 "妈,其实老人院并没有甚么不好?知道老婆一但工作,一定没有时间好好服侍。老人院有吃有住有人服侍照顾, 不是比在家里好得多吗?"
"可是,阿财叔他......"
洗了澡,草草吃了一碗方便面,儿子便到书房去。他茫然地伫立于窗前,有些犹豫不决。母亲年轻便守寡,含辛茹苦将他抚养成人,供他出国读书。但她从不用年轻时的牺牲当作要胁他孝顺的筹码,反而是妻子以婚姻要胁他!真的要让母亲住老人院吗?他问自己,他有些不忍。
"可以陪你下半世的人是你老婆,难道是你妈吗?"阿财叔的儿子总是这样提醒他。
"你妈都这么老了,好命的话可以活多几年,为何不趁这几年好好孝顺她呢?树欲静而风不息, 子欲养而亲不在啊!"亲戚总是这样劝他。
儿子不敢再想下去,深怕自己真的会改变初衷。
晚,太阳收敛起灼热的金光,躲在山后憩息。一间建在郊外山岗的一座贵族老人院。 是的,钱用得越多,儿子才心安理得。当儿子领着母亲步入大厅时,崭新的电视机,42英寸的荧幕正播放着一部喜剧,但观众一点笑声也没有。
几个衣着一样,发型一样的老妪歪歪斜斜地坐在发沙上,神情呆滞而落寞。有个老人在自言自语,有个正缓缓弯下腰,想去捡掉在地上的一块饼干吃。 儿子知道母亲喜欢光亮,所以为她选了一间阳光充足的房间。从窗口望出去,树荫下,一片芳草如茵。几名护士推着坐在轮椅的老者在夕阳下散步,四周悄然寂静得令人心酸。纵是夕阳无限好,毕竟已到了黄昏,他心中低低叹息。
"妈,我......我要走了!"母亲只能点头。他走时,母亲频频挥手,她张着没有牙的嘴,苍白干燥的咀唇在嗫嚅着,一副欲语还休的样子。儿子这才注意到母亲银灰色的头发,深陷的眼窝以及打着细褶的皱脸。母亲,真的老了!
他霍然记起一则儿时旧事。那年他才6岁,母亲有事回乡,不便携他同行,于是把他寄住在阿财叔家几天。母亲临走时,他惊恐地抱着母亲的腿不肯放,伤心大声号哭道:"妈妈不要丢下我!妈妈不要走!" 最后母亲没有丢下他。他连忙离开房间,顺手把门关上,不敢回头,深恐那记忆像鬼魅似地追缠而来。
他回到家,妻子与岳母正疯狂的把母亲房里的一切扔个不亦乐乎。身高3英寸的奖杯──那是他小学作文比赛《我的母亲》第1名的胜利品!华英字典──那是母亲整个月省吃省用所买给他的第1份生日礼物!还有母亲临睡前要擦的风湿油,没有他为她擦,带去老人院又有甚么意义呢?
"够了,别再扔了!"儿子怒吼道。
"这么多垃圾,不把它扔掉,怎么放得下我的东西。" 岳母没好气地说。
"就是嘛!你赶快把你妈那张烂床给抬出去,我明天要为我妈添张新的!"
一堆童年的照片展现在儿子眼前,那是母亲带他到动物园和游乐园拍的照片。
"它们是我妈的财产,一样也不能丢!"
"你这算甚态度?对我妈这么大声,我要你向我妈道歉!" (楼主注:这算什么儿子,把自己的母亲送到养老院,然后把岳母接来住,要就一起去送,要就留自己的母亲)
"我娶你就要爱你的母亲,为甚么?嫁给我就不能爱我的母亲?"
雨后的黑夜分外冷寂,街道萧瑟,行人车辆格外稀少。一辆宝马在路上飞驰,频频闯红灯,陷黄格,呼一声又飞驰而过。那辆轿车一路奔往山岗上的那间老人院,停车直奔上楼,推开母亲卧房的门。他幽灵似地站着,母亲正抚摸着风湿痛的双腿低泣。 她见到儿子手中正拿着那瓶风湿油,显然感到安慰的说:"妈忘了带,幸好你拿来!"他走到母亲身边,跪了下来。
"很晚了,妈自己擦可以了,你明天还要上班,回去吧!"
他嗫嚅片刻,终于忍不住啜泣道:"妈,对不起,请原谅我!我们回家去吧!"
~~后语~~
随着自己愈长大,看着父母亲脸庞从年轻变憔悴,头发从乌丝变白发,动作从迅捷变缓慢,多心疼!父母亲总是将最好、最宝贵的留给我们,像蜡烛不停的燃烧自己,照亮孩子!而我呢?有没有腾出一个空间给我的父母,或者只是在当我需要停泊岸时,才会想起他们......
其实父母亲要的真的不多,只是一句随意的问候「爸、妈,你们今天好吗?」随意买的宵夜,煮一顿再普通不过的晚餐,睡前帮他们盖盖被子,天冷帮他们添衣服、戴手套....都能让他们高兴温馨很久。有时,我常在想:我希望我的子女以后如何对我。那现在,我有没有如此对待我的父母?我相信,人是环环相扣的;现在,你如何对待你的父母;以后,你的子女就如何待你。
朋友,人世间最难报的就是父母恩,愿我们都能:以反哺之心奉敬父母,以感恩之心孝顺父母!
~共勉之~
生命不要求我们成为最好的,只要求我们作最大的努力!
老人安养院墙上发现的一篇文章
孩子!当你还很小的时候,我花了很多时间,教你慢慢用汤匙、用筷子吃东西。教你系鞋带、扣扣子、溜滑梯、教你穿衣服、梳头发、拧鼻涕。这些和你在一起的点点滴滴,是多么的令我怀念不已。所以,当我想不起来,接不上话时,请给我一点时间,等我一下,让我再想一想 ......极可能最后连要说什么,我也一并忘记。孩子!你忘记我们练习了好几百回,才学会的第一首娃娃歌吗?是否还记得每天总要我绞尽脑汁,去回答不知道你从哪里冒出 来的吗?所以,当我重复又重复说着老掉牙的故事,哼着我孩提时代的儿歌时,体谅我。让我继续沉醉在这些回忆中吧!切望你,也能陪着我闲话家常吧!孩子,现在我常忘了扣扣子、系鞋带。吃饭时,会弄脏衣服,梳头发时手还会不停的抖,不要催促我,要对我多一点耐心和温柔,只要有你在一起,就会有很多的温暖涌上心 头。
孩子!如今,我的脚站也站不稳,走也走不动。所以,请你紧紧的握着我的手,陪着我,慢慢的。就像当年一样,我带着你一步一步地走。
若为人子女也不懂得如何体谅他们,那他们便只能于痛苦中渡过余生,黑暗中逝去......
请把此文章转发给您的朋友,让他们知道家人才是最重要的。爱情可以重新再找寻,但父母一生却只有一个,要珍惜、珍重。
如果此贴让你感动,如果你是一个孝顺有良知的人,如果你想老爸老妈有个幸福的晚年就回帖吧 。祝回帖的朋友的父母--身体健康,长命百岁,一生平安!!!!!!
Will be 9 months old soooooon...
This morning she surprised us by waving her hand when hubby said good bye to her... What a joyful moment to us because before this we only got to know what she newly learned from our babysitter and this time, it's our turn to tell babysitter that she knows how to raise her hand when we say 'good bye'!! Haha...
I dunno how's ur baby, but Anne seems like not interested to most of the toy we bought. What she like most is "any piece of small paper". Why ar? Paper really that nice ka??? Emm... should i feel happy because i can save a lot of money?? Paper very cheap de ne...
So far, she understand/can:
- clap hands
- bye bye by raise her hand
- sit up without our help
- crawl and crawl and crawl and crawl...
- stand up if have someting to hold and support her like the pic below!!!!
Anne, happy 9 months old!!!
No mood to work...
1st and 2nd June are Sarawak's Gawai Festival, which is public holiday for the state. Emm... i think my family member sure very busy now.. Because today is my 2nd sister's 过大礼的日子. Quite disappoited that i cannot be there!!! Then tomorrow all of them will be heading to Sibu for bride side's reception (fyi, we stay in Miri, but all our relatives are in Sibu. My parents moved to Miri once they married). 6th June will be ROM day, then 14th June will be the actual wedding day. I will be going back to Miri together with Hubby and Anne on 11th June, 10 more days to go. What should i wear on the big day le??? What should Anne wear le???? Haiya....
Now a days, Anne like to bite my shoulder when i carry her... Is this because her gum very very itchi?? But she won't bite my babysitter... Bully mummy only... She has 6 teeth now, 2 at the lower gum and 4 at the upper gum... many people said she start teething very fast... what you think? 9 months with 6 teeth, a lot ka??
See my naughty girl's very naughty face!!! Hahaha....
See what i did...
After fetch Anne, I must reach home before 6:30pm because the caterer normally will send the food around 6:35pm - 6:45pm (That's why i rush like a crazy women!!). That day (forgot which day already), i was so tired and plan to change Anne's diaper to get her ready to sleep-mode... before i start changing her diaper, i intend to heat the rice in microwave. So, i quickly place the bowl covered with the cover which i think with rice inside into the microwave and start heating the "rice" inside... then i happily change Anne and play with her... after the caterer send the food, i tot i can happily enjoy my dinner before my little Anne starts making noise and wanna sleep... when i open the cover of the bowl i placed inside the microwave, to my surprise... OMG... i put in the wrong bowl!! So, Anne's toy became like this:

Sorry Anne, if your gum itchy, bite mummy... ok???
p/s: Lesson of the day - Never put toy inside a microwave-able bowl!!!!
20 days to go....
Just got message from my hubby. He will be outstation on our anniversary day... chia lak la.... He now start asking where to go for my first Mother's day lunch pulak!!! Must eat sepuas-puasnya, right??!!?!?!
Are you clever??!?!
FIRST QUESTION: You are participating in a race. You overtake the second person. What position are you in?
ANSWER: If you answer that you are first, then you are Absolutely wrong! If you overtake the second person And you take his place, you are second! Try not to Screw up in the next question.
To answer the second question, don't take as much time as you took for the first question. (You know you took too much time.)
SECOND QUESTION: If you overtake the last person, then you are...?
ANSWER: If you answered that you are second to last, then you are wrong again. Tell me, how can you overtake the LAST person?!
THIRD QUESTION: Very tricky math! Note: This must be done in your head only. Do NOT use paper and pencil or a calculator. Try it.
Take 1000 and add 40 to it.
Now add another 1000.
Now add 30.
Add another 1000.
Now add 20.
Now add another 1000.
Now add 10.
What is the total?
ANSWER: Did you get 5000? The correct answer is actually 4100. Don't believe it? Check with your calculator! Today is definitely not your day. Maybe you will get the last question right?
LAST QUESTION: Mary's father has five daughters: Nana, Nene, Nini, Nono.
What is the name of the fifth daughter?
ANSWER: Nunu? Nana? Nene? NONO! Of course not. The fifth daughter's name is Mary.
Read the question again.
So, how many question you can get the answer correctly?? ^^






